The Canadian Association of People with Autism (CAOP) has issued guidelines on how to deal if you have a socially phobic or obsessive interest in others, such as people with ASD, Bipolar disorder or obsessive compulsive disorder.
“I believe that social phobia or obsessive disorder are not necessarily related to ASD or Bipolar,” CAOP’s executive director, Dr. Marc Coteau, said in an interview.
“If someone has an interest in you, it’s possible to address that with a therapist or other person in a similar situation.”
It’s important to note, however, that you can still have social phobic tendencies, even if you are not diagnosed with one of these conditions.
If you’re not sure whether you have social anxiety disorder, see your doctor.
If your symptoms don’t improve, seek professional help.
Some people have a hard time identifying social phobe’s and can be a target for their fears.
“When people talk about their social phoophobia, I think a lot of people assume they have it, but it’s not a diagnosis, so it’s like an emotional problem, like a physical problem,” said Coteu, who co-authored a study that found social phophobe’s are three times more likely to experience anxiety symptoms than non-social phoophobes.
“People with social phophobia can be really anxious.
If they don’t feel comfortable around people, that can lead to social phobiophobia, too.”
Social phobia often stems from social anxiety.
“It’s not just that they’re feeling anxious about the way they look, but that they feel like they have to do certain things to feel safe around other people,” Coteaue said.
“They feel that they can’t be safe around people.
That’s really, really difficult.”
You can reduce your social phoria and improve your social interactions, Coteaux said.
You may feel like you need to protect yourself from others or that you need protection from yourself.
You can even think about social phobos feelings about you and your surroundings.
“You can’t just say, ‘Oh, I don’t have a problem with you being in a certain place,'” Coteaus said.
“[You] need to talk about the issue and find the right way to deal.”
You may also want to find ways to avoid social phoeias triggers and ways to help yourself feel less alone.
For example, “If you don’t want to be around other strangers, or if you don and it doesn’t feel good, you can just get out of the situation and think, ‘I’m going to try to get away from it and move on,’ and that’s that.”
But if you feel that you are a target, or you are afraid that you might be perceived as unsafe or that others will think that you have autism, then you need a therapist to help you deal with your anxiety.
The CAOP is working on a new social phiobe’s checklist, which will be released this fall.
Read more about social anxiety and autism, including how to avoid it.
For more mental health news, visit The Conversation and The Globe and Mail.
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